Welcome and Reflection
On another day, we continued touring around the Baguio area, first dropping down Kennon Road a bit which is a very winding road that winds up from the lowlands to the mountain tops of Baguio along a steep gorge. It is very prone to landslides and indeed, just descending down it part way we had to pass several areas which were down to one lane due to the other lane no longer existing due to a landslide. Our destination was the locally famous Lion's Lion.
On past trips, when we have passed by the lion head, I have known that I was near the end of my trip and we would soon be in Baguio. Back then, there was just a pull off for it and one could hop out and take a picture. These days however, it has become a tourist draw so you have to pay to park in the much larger pullouts and then up and down the road from the lion head are lots of vendors peddling cheap Chinese trinkets to the masses. There is even a sort of line that forms for people wanting to climb up near the lion's mouth and have their picture taken. My kids and their cousins did this but I declined.
Our next stop was definitely a place that brought back a lot of emotions, sadness for me and even more sadness for my wife. We are standing on a road overlooking the first house my wife grew up in that her dad built himself. It is in the lower right of the photo behind the building with the patched up tin roof. What elicited the sadness in differing levels from both of us was how much it had changed. The first time I visited this house, it was all by itself on the outskirts of town with only trees for neighbors. Now as you can see, it has been quite built up and is now barely visible from the road due to other houses blocking our view.
The path to get to it that descended from the road is now walled off with a gate that can be closed though was open when we arrived. My wife's father died when she was ten of a tropical disease and this house that he built was her direct connection to that part of her life. After his death, they would end up moving and ending up across town where they now live.
Since there were two houses down there and a fenced in property to the right, we ventured through the gate and down the steps to a landing and another gate that was closed tight. Over the gate is the view you see above with the rusted red roof in the background on the left being the house of my wife's father. We called down to see if anyone was home but got no answer. Now wanting to trespass further, we walked back up to the road and continued on our way.




I can see that would be very nostalgic.
ReplyDeleteEspecially since it had been more than a decade since our last visit there.
DeleteLosing her dad so young must have been tough for your wife. :( It's still hard to drive by my childhood home and see the changes. Or even what hasn't changed like flowers blooming that meant a lot to my parents and carry memories of who gifted them.
ReplyDeleteOf the four homes I can remember living in during my childhood, the three earliest no longer stand and haven't for years so I am not haunted by their sight anymore. But things my mom planted and cared for still exist around the fourth but fortunately, it is far enough off the road I really can't drive by it.
DeleteIt's a sad reminder that you really can't ever go back. Things change.
ReplyDeleteYes, change is one of the few constants in life.
DeleteEd, I had some of the same feelings when I drove by the house I grew up in; going back less and less to Old Home, I imagine it will become less. The Ranch will likely be the same - but also a self-correcting problem; I cannot imagine now the next time I will be back.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if my wife will want to go back anymore the next time we return.
DeleteChildhood homes seem to have a mysterious draw to them. Is it the memories they evoke or something else? I tried to find mine on google earth once, but it had been torn down and replaced with a larger more modern house.
ReplyDeleteI think when we are young, most memories are good because we aren't worried about everything else around us. As we age and become aware, the outside tempers our memories of home.
DeleteIt is always sad to see how things change from what they were like when you were a child. Is there a connection with he Lion's Head and the Lion's International? Was it created for a convention? I'm going to have to catch up with your travels!
ReplyDeleteIt is connected to Lion's International or at least their emblem is posted at the site. According to the Wikipedia page, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lion%27s_Head_(Benguet), it just seems to be attached to the local Lion's Club as a way to draw attention.
DeleteThanks for the insight.
DeleteSometimes it seems as if every place in the world is over-touristed! (And I can hardly complain, having just contributed to over-tourism myself.) That IS a very impressive lion.
ReplyDeleteIt's always hard to revisit childhood places that have changed over the years. I'm not sure I'll ever go back to my childhood home again for just that reason.
I did find one place on this trip that I visited last 23 years ago that hadn't changed a bit. I'll blog about that in the future at some point. But other than that one place, everything else had lots more tourists than I remembered.
DeleteWe have kept up our home every since we bought it back in 1985. It is now 103 years old. Hopefully it will be in the family and not fought over by the kids. Seeing families squabble over their parents' assets is so ugly. I made a living trust to avoid this.
ReplyDeleteI have felt that it is better to have discussions of life after death rather than to assume. My parents pretty much told me what they desired to happen to their estate and though it has changed in recent years, it is only after discussing it with us. I plan on doing much the same with my kids.
DeleteI had a lot of catching up to do. I miss a few days and next thing I know you are halfway around the world!
ReplyDeleteWell to be fair, you were choking on some steak bites while I was away.
DeleteVery bittersweet for your wife. She was so young when her Dad died. The countryside is very different there...I grew up on a farm just two miles from where we live now...of course it has changes some in the past 73 plus years. I can visit when ever I want we know the couple quite well who live there now. I don't feel much nostalgia with the house because it has changed so much but I sure did with the barn when it fell down. I know and recall where the outhouse sat and where the big garden was...and the grainery and the old garage and brooder house and chicken coop. Different people note different things I guess.
ReplyDeleteThe house where I spent the most years of my childhood and knew the best has existed in probably close to three decades now. But like you, I could probably stand where the front steps were and mark the distance to all the other things that no longer exist.
DeleteI'm so sorry for your wife. I'm glad she could see her old memories though. All my childhood places are completely gone here in Hawaii. They've all been built over with suburban homes or businesses.
ReplyDeleteI'm really in awe of how far your wife has come from such a sad beginning. She is certainly an amazing woman.
Her life has definitely taken a lot of unexpected turns.
DeleteI can't imagine what it's like to come from such humble beginnings and to accomplish what your wife has. I'm in awe. I am curious if you have any idea what the red substance is in the two "bowls" on the patchwork roof.
ReplyDeleteI hadn't noticed those two bowls until you pointed it out and I have no idea what it is. I'll have to ask my wife is she might and let you know.
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