Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged


After visiting my wife's first home, we continued on to the home that used to belong to the parents of my brother-in-law's wife. They both died in the years leading up to Covid and since then, my SIL and her sister take care of the house with periodic visits. The land includes the store front you see in the picture above and the house barely visible among the trees behind the store and above the rock retaining wall. There is a small garden between the base of the retaining wall and the back of the store that they harvest some vegetables from but mostly they stop here to feed the dogs, more on that later.

Just to he left of the store in the first picture, you can see an incredibly steep road heading up to the driveway of the house. Above is a picture trying to convey just how steep the road really is. I am always amazed at how the vehicles we ride in are able to climb up such steep roadways when I feel like my feet are just about to slide out from under me when I walk the very same road.


But the van we were driving made it up the road and into the driveway. Above, you can see the outdoor kitchen shack, behind which the main house is built. It also gives you a sense of the steepness of the terrain as you can see the rock retaining wall behind the house holding back the mountain side.


From the front porch of the house and screening it from the road and store below is a welcoming jungle of trees and plants. I would love to have something similar in front of my porch too but don't really want to water it enough to maintain it.

While I was enjoying the view, my BIL and SIL were feeding the two dogs. Dogs are not treated or revered the same as they are here in the States but like here, they are becoming increasingly more popular to own. These two dogs spent most of their lives chained up to the rough dog houses that are their home. They aren't walked, petted or even played with. Except for being fed every couple days, they don't even see humans to interact with.

The dog on the left in the picture below is the original dog that my BIL purchased at some point. I tried asking why but really couldn't get an answer that made sense to me. Somehow another dog impregnated that dog and she had three pups. One died for unexplained reasons and another ran away never to be seen again. The surviving pup along with the mother were relocated to my SIL's property where they have resided ever since and eat the leftover rice and foods that their family generates. 

At face value when compared to dogs I see back home, it seems somewhat of a cruel existence to be chained up in one spot all of your life. But we essentially do the same thing for many animals that we humans have adopted as pets over the years from birds to hamsters. Even bigger animals like cats and dogs spend their lives contained in small areas and when outside of the area are retained by a shackle around their neck and a leash. I try not to pass judgment on the locals, who for the most part all treat pets in similar fashion as my BIL. Are we any better?

In the end, I just mentally tell myself that this is just one of those things that IS and it is different than what I am used to. I don't cast moral judgement on them because I'm used to something different. Sort of along the biblical line of, "judge not lest ye be judged." 




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  1. Like you, I try not to pass judgment. I've certainly been judged (online and in real life) because we've always had inside dogs (who are a bit more pampered) and outside dogs (who have the thrill of running free in the country). All our dogs are loved, though, and given the basics (food, water, shelter, treats, physical love).

    I can't imagine trying to drive up that hill in a standard vehicle. Pity the person behind me if I had to stop and start again!

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    1. It is very hard when another culture’s norms don’t align with ours.

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  2. Great photos, Ed—that road looks like a true test for any vehicle's brakes! Your reflections on the dogs and cultural differences were really insightful and fair. It's a great reminder to keep an open mind when traveling.

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    1. I kept wondering what happens when your brakes wear out. I suppose there is a pile of vehicles at the bottom of every mountain.

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  3. A lot of that reminds me of old Hawaii. But that steep incline is scary. I can't imagine what it's like walking up that road or driving on it.

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    1. I road up it once in a van and walked up and down it once on foot. I prefer the van. Walking down it, even when it was bone dry, I was worried that my shoes would slip out from underneath me the entire way down.

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  4. It would be heartbreaking to me to see dogs like that. They are such loving creatures. Why keep them if you dont' enjoy them? Sorry. I judge.

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    1. I guess for me, I try to think of it in terms of other animals in which we do the same thing over here such as gerbils, goldfish, zoo animals, etc. We have singled out dogs and cats for better care here and they haven't in other countries.

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  5. You see a very different culture. we learn so much from other cultures

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    1. Learning from other cultures is what attracts me so much to traveling among other cultures. There is so much to learn and contemplate.

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  6. Uffdda...I guess the dogs are safe and have food and water that is better than some dogs.

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    1. They could have grown up in China, the largest consumer of dog meat.

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  7. We have some roads like that in Appalachia! But I have to say I'm glad we don't live on one.

    Our neighbors on both sides chain their dogs. I think legally they're not supposed to but they do it. The other thing I see a lot of around here is keeping dogs in small pens. I think the pens are sold as 'kennels.'

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    1. I see a lot of that up here though I think indoor dogs have overtaken them by percentage. I am always aghast at how many people want to get a dog and then put it in a tiny kennel or chain it out back only to interact with it a few minutes in the evening.

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  8. That road looks terribly steep! Interesting perspective on the dogs. Many cultures don't look at dogs or cats as pets. They are more feral.

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    1. The Philippines was that way two decades ago. Dogs were something that just roamed the streets and occasionally disappeared when times were tough, i.e. eaten. But they are starting down the road America has long traveled and this trip I saw a lot more that were pets, whether chained up or penned next to houses and even indoor dogs. The indoor ones are still nowhere pampered like their American counterparts but I have no doubt that will be coming soon.

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  9. Navigating cultural differences around animal care can be really tough on the heart. Seeing pets live so differently from what we know back home definitely forces a shift in perspective. You handled that internal struggle with remarkable empathy. Stepping back without passing harsh judgment takes true maturity. Aside from that heavy topic, that steep road looks like quite the calf workout, though that lush porch greenery creates a beautiful hidden retreat. Pets are simply animals we choose to put some inside the house.

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    1. When pondering such subjects, it is helpful to imagine what they might think of some of the things I consider normal.

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